WHAT IS TRUE HOSPITALITY? WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO GIVE?
God’s people are called to practice “HOSPITALITY”, for at any time we may be entertaining angels. We are going to address that subject in PART2. For today, on the flip side, I want to define wise generosity-meaning how are we as Christians to give? I have seen my fair share of Christians abuse this verse and other parts of God’s Word by selfishly taking from other Christians when they are not in need-failing to give back in return (when they are fully able), saying not to expect anything in return. So which is true?
I have witnessed a steady stream of Christians who give in a way in which they please, if at all in an effort to extract favors from other Christians-knowing that the rule is to give without expecting anything in return. I would submit that we are called give with our heads before we give SOLEY from our hearts. My cousin calls this “wise-generosity”, and Christians ware wise to practice wise generosity.
WHAT ABOUT GIVING WITHOUT ANYTHING IN RETURN? Perhaps the most cited Scripture is Luke found in Luke 6, whereby Jesus says, “GIVE TO EVERYONE WHO ASKS YOU…JESUS SAID…AND WHAT IS YOURS DO NOT DEMAND IT BACK” (Luke 6:30).
As Christians, we must recognize that all blessings in life come from God, including material blessings. God gives them to us and He can take them away. This verse and the Bible in whole tells us that we are to have a kind attitude that leads Christians to become less stingy, greedy and possessive and more generous and compassionate in the process. Throughout Scripture, God reminds us that we are to give and give often (Malachi 3:10, Proverbs 3:9). We are to pay our taxes (Matthew 22:20-21), and take care of those in the church and community who need it (Acts 4:32).
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO GIVE? In terms of giving, Christians should never make it a point to show others they give (Matthew 6:1-4). Generosity is not measured in dollar amount. God calls us to give in secret, because, unlike man, God looks at the heart.
That being said, keep in mind that many people misunderstand what the Bible says about giving to others. For example, when Jesus tells the rich young man to go and sell all his possessions, he was not being literal, but figurative in that one must be “willing” to give all he or she has in this temporal world to follow Jesus Christ.
So, how do we balance this with giving everything away and being poor? 2 Thessalonians 3:10-13 says: “FOR EVEN WHEN WE WERE WITH YOU, WE WOULD GIVE YOU THIS COMMAND: IF ANYONE IS NOT WILLING TO WORK, LET HIM NOT EAT. FOR WE HEAR THAT SOME AMONG YOU WALK IN IDLENESS, NOT BUSY AT WORK, BUT BUSYBODIES.NOW SUCH PERSONS WE COMMAND AND ENCOURAGE IN THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TO DO THEIR WORK QUIETLY AND TO EARN THEIR OWN LIVING. AS FOR YOU, BROTHERS, DO NOT GROW WEARY OF DOING GOOD”.(2 THESS. 3:10-13 ESV).
Paul here is citing his own example of working so as not to be a burden to others (although he had the right to do so as a n apostle). In ADDITION to NOT working, some were “busybodies”-the two often go hand in hand. Simply put, those WHO ARE ABLE to provide for themselves, should and are expected biblically to pay for what they spend or consume-period. If one DESIRES to give as a gift to another, that is great, but there is no biblical mandate to give to everyone and anyone who simply asks for your money or material items. It's human sin nature to get others do do things for your and spend their money, eat their food, have you drive them and consume another person's resources so as to store up their own for self-pleasure. This is very much overlooked in the church and we must address it and be aware of what God's Word is truly telling us. If we don't all Christians would have no resources to do great things such as build churches, send out missionaries, feed the poor, etc. Why? Because all their money would be given to those who ask-including those outside the body of Christ.
In conclusion, we are to give wisely-exercising wise generosity. If we fail to do so, anyone and everyone who doesn’t necessarily have an authentic need could and would ask for all we have-and we would be left with nothing more to give those those in true need. Let’s be careful not to take a single Bible verse, but consider all the Bible has to say in proper context regarding our "giving". God’s perfect Word speaks clearly if we will listen clearly. Let's make sure to read, pray for God's wisdom and act biblically literate before making decisions about money and all other areas of life.