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Steven Garofalo, M.A. Apologetics is president and founder of ReasonForTruth.Org and EquippedAcademy.Com. His mission is to help you not just survive, but to thrive by cutting through the distortion of current events with discernment, wisdom, and the truth of God-to encourage, educate and prepare you for what is, and what is at hand. www.ReasonForTruth.Org www.EquippedAcademy.Com
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REALITY, PAIN, DEATH AND GRACE

I along with Heather my wife and son Zacharia went to a funeral yesterday for a young man (Sean Youngblood) three months older than Zach. Zach back packed and camped -was in Trail Life together with this young man. I liked pitching my tent next his dad John Youngblood.

  • This young man committed suicide last week-which was most tragic and sad-and our hearts broke for the parents, grandparents and the siblings of this young man (John’s other four children), aunts and uncles and close friends.

  • As the immediate family walked down the aisle I made it a point not to look away as most everyone else did. I looked at each person-I looked into each of their eyes/face.

  • WHY would I do this? Because I wanted to not look away from reality, pain, sorrow and loss. Isn’t that the reason we were ther inmlarr? I wanted to -uncomfortably feel a bit of their sorrow. WHY? Because that’s part of the authentic mourning process that we as Americans do not do well. We tend to want to go and pay our respects before forgetting the pain and loss. Sean Youngblood, the young man left his family and all of us wonderful memories, but also a lot of pain and sorrow. Sadly, that’s the reality of this life.

  • WHAT was perplexing at first to me was that Sean’s parents, grandparents and sibling are a godly and loving family. They loved and supported Sean. This part hurt the most because his parents and family were “there” for him. Had he come from a lacking family, it may have made a bit more sense.

  • That said, I was (we were) reminded of what it means to be an honest, truthful, ethics, servant leader. That was Sean.

  • I don’t care much for Christians who live for themselves-those who live and have lived for their selfish ambitions, selfish desires and passions-out of selfishness. And have benefited in the ways of this world for such an approach to life - which is it biblical. Accountability comes to us all -this included.

  • My conclusion is that in the end, life is very temporal-and better lived well and rightly in God’s eyes (not our own eyes or according to what we may want to say God thinks in an effort to make God in our image) but according to the “traditional” Biblical ways God has so clearly provided in Scripture. This is the mark of a mature and authentic Christian.

  • LASTLY-IN CLOSING, I want to leave you with the importance of the family in light of God’s Word and ways. This responsibility of the family-of raising godly children falls directly on mom and dad primarily to fulfill. I see so many adults - parents who feel like they have some right to a new life after divorce (a problem all its own).

  • We talk a lot about how Satan attacked marriages and the family. Well, Satan works through or uses US to facilitate his attacks to make them happen. He turns them from potentiality into reality. And we are guilty to allow him to do so.

  • Even worse, we use God’s grace if not careful, to proclaim in some disfunctional way that God has restored us as if to reset the clock of destruction and parental failings. Yes, God can restore us, but that does not set the clock back to zero. The carnage and pain must be repented and the time and investment must be made as best as possible as opposed to selfish living.

  • I would assert that this is why America and the West are falling apart-it’s the family falling apart when…and many of us are guilty as such. How many are so patriotic about the country falling apart but fail to do their core part - responsibility in raising children right as best they can to begin with. We must do better.

  • Sadly, the Youngblood family are suffering beyond words- they are good people, good parents-investing and having invested their time and love in each of their five children. I witnessed this first hand. And I suppose this is part of what hurts the most.

  • Please pray for the Youngblood family. They will never fully recover from the loss of their oldest son Sean. But God will ease their pain over time. Please be in prayer for them.

  • LASTLY, I want to end with a summary of what the Bible says about the importance of family and how we as parents are “to be parents”-thank you for reading to the end..

The Bible places immense value on the family unit, positioning it as the very foundational building block of society and the primary earthly reflection of God's relationship with humanity.

Key Scriptures on Family

• Psalm 127:3-5 (NKJV):"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth."
• The Takeaway: Children and family are not burdens; they are viewed as a blessing, inheritance, and strategic strength given by God. It’s sad to see this truth ignored as the expense of the children.

• Exodus 20:12 (NKJV):"Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you."
• The Takeaway: As the Fifth Commandment, honoring parents is so vital that it carries a specific promise of longevity and thriving within a community.

• Proverbs 22:6 (ESV):"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it."
• The Takeaway: The home is designed to be the primary classroom for faith, character, and values.

• 1 Timothy 5:8 (ESV):"But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."
• The Takeaway: God treats the duty to care for and protect one's biological household as a core measure of a person's spiritual integrity.

Why Family Matters (The Biblical Perspective)

1. It Represents God's Nature: God reveals Himself using family terms. He is the Father, believers are His children, and Christ is the bridegroom. The earthly family helps us understand spiritual reality.

2. It Provides the Ultimate Support System: Ecclesiastes 4 highlights that "two are better than one." God designed the family to be a built-in network for emotional, physical, and spiritual safety.

3. It Passes Down Legacy: In Deuteronomy 6, God commands families to talk about truth when they sit in their houses, walk by the way, lie down, and rise up. Family is the pipeline for generational wisdom.

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BE ENCOURAGED: God Is At Work BUT Things Will Be Different

The world is changing and Acts 12 tells us what we might expect. Remember, as Solomon made clear…nothing is new under the sun and the world is one big cycle and all things repeat themselves. So let’s. It think of ourselves as special but more as servants of our Lord in high and to one another. I hope you enjoy, are encouraged and challenged by today’s video.-Steven

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I have re ordered or better year I am re-ordering my time and will be investing more time in our proprietary community and less podcasts on YouTube who has failed over the years to give us the algerithums fairly. That says I will eventually get back to one podcast a week and spend more time here in our community…wirh more audios just for the community with some videos. Please share with others to join our community. We need another 30 people before I can get more video space to post for you…thank you! -Steven

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In his new book “On Mission with Purpose”, Steven Garofalo shares through personal story and established research why discovering your purpose
and putting that purpose into motion through mission is so important. The book hinges on the fact that discovering your life purpose will give you meaning. But understanding purpose offers little if any meaning if you
do not put your purpose into action through mission. If you own a beautiful Lamborghini sports car, but never drive it, what good is it? It sits in the garage unused with little if any purpose or mission. In great part, living out
your faith in action gives you purpose and meaning. Steven applies this formula to many areas of life ranging from your personal life to the marketplace, everyday living, retirement all the way to your legacy. Do you desire to live an exciting life full of purpose and meaning through mission?
God has exciting things for you and in whatever stage of life you are in. Now
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PERSECUTED-Christians in Political Discourse

What does persecution and Christians in or not in political discourse have in common? EVERYTHING. This is not a political message but a biblical one. I hope you are encouraged and motivated by this episode.

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FROM SUFFERING TO PERSEVERANCE

We live in difficult times in trying times full of suffering. The secret to pushing through and overcoming suffering is to persevere. In today's episode Steven is going to take us through the Word of God, focussing on the Apostle Paul's words regarding why, how and when to persevere through trials and times of suffering. Tune in and if you like-take notes. Thank you for tuning in and let's get started!

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“AVOID THE BUBBLE”-HOW CHRISTIANS ARE TO ACT TOWARDS NON-CHRISTIANS

Collossiansn 4:5-6 tells us that as believers in Jesus Christ-we are not to lock ourselves in the church and forget the world. Yes, the church is our place of community-but we have to live in the world without being of it.

  • Being "in the world but not of it" is a core Christian concept rooted in John 17:15–18, where Jesus prays that his followers remain physically present in the world while being protected from evil and untethered from worldly systems.

Let’s read these two short verses and make comment.

Colossians 4:5–6
5 “Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. 6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”

WHO ARE THE OUTSIDERS? (V.5)
They are those who are not Christians but pagans…those we all too often distance ourselves from. Back when Paul wrote Colossians to the church (61 A.D.) the division between believers and non-believers was sharp; the church was the community and all others were ...

HOW WE ARE TO BIBLICALLY WORK

We all have been called to some sort of work-albeit a stay at home mom, working in an office, law enforcement, retail and a host of other work options. That said, we all have to choose to do our work with a good or bad attitude. And how we respond to our manager or boss(s) is a biblical decision. Paul writes in Colossians 3…

"Bondservants, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality” (Colossians 3:22-25 ESV)

In Colossians 3:22–25, the Apostle Paul addresses how faith should transform daily work and relationships. Historically addressed to first-century slaves and masters, the passage commands workers to work with integrity, sincerity, and maximum ...

“The New Self”-HOW ARE WE TO ACT AND THINK WHEN WE ACCEPT CHRIST AS LORD AND!SAVIOR?

It’s 2026 and it’s wise for us to return to the Word of God to instruct us in “how to be” a new creation” putting in “our new self”. 1 Colossians says it better than any of us can summarize because it’s the inspired instructions in the matter from God. Please take time to read the entire chapter -I put the first handful of verses below….blessings-Steven
(P.s. I will add a new entry with commentary on this passage next time.)

“Seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. 3 For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him iin glory.
5 Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 On account of these the wrath of God is coming. 7 In these you too once walked, when you were living in ...

GIVE WHAT IS OWED
(From my Portugal Bible Study)

*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
Romans 13:5–7 (NIV)
“_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing. Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor._”

*BACKGROUND/CONTEXT*
Beginning in Romans 12, Paul shifted his message from explaining the theology of the gospel to describing how the gospel should transform our lives and how we should live as believers. 

In Romans 12, believers are called to become “living sacrifices,” marked by humility, love, peace, and overcoming evil with good. Then in Romans 13:1-4, which we studied yesterday, Paul applied these principles to the Christian’s relationship with governing authorities. He explained that government is part of God’s “ordering of society” and that believers should live respectfully and peacefully within the nations where God has placed them.

Today, Paul continues this teaching by moving from the general principle of submission to practical examples of Christian conduct within society. 

*SUBMISSION AND CONSCIENCE*
_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience_

In yesterday’s study, Paul focused on our external submission to governing authorities. However, in today’s study, he moves to our inward motivation. As Christians, we are not only to obey authorities because we fear punishment, but because we understand that honoring lawful authority is part of living faithfully before God. In other words, submission is not simply about avoiding consequences; it is also about maintaining a clear conscience before the Lord.

The word “conscience” (_syneidēsis_) refers to our inner moral awareness, our God-given understanding of right and wrong. For believers, our conscience is shaped by the Holy Spirit and the truth of God’s Word. Paul’s point is that we as Christians should want to do what is right - not because we are forced to, but because our hearts have been transformed by Christ.

This same idea appears in 1 Peter 2:15, where Peter writes: “_For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people._” Christians should be known as people of integrity whose conduct reflects their faith even when no one is watching.

In a culture that often celebrates rebellion, outrage, and hostility toward authority, we are called to demonstrate humility, wisdom, self-control, and peaceful living. Our goal is not to win political arguments, but to live with a clear conscience and a faithful witness before both God and the world.

*PAYING TAXES AND SERVING SOCIETY*
_This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing_

Paul now moves from the principle of submission to a practical example: paying taxes. In the Roman world, taxes were unpopular and burdensome, just as they are for many people today. Yet Paul teaches that Christians should willingly pay those taxes they owe. This is because government, despite its faults, serves an important role in maintaining order within society.

Again, Paul describes governing authorities as “God’s servants.” This time he uses the Greek word (_leitourgos_), which is normally used for public service or even priestly ministry. Paul’s point is not that rulers are spiritually righteous, but that God can use civil authorities to accomplish His purposes, especially in maintaining order, protecting people, and carrying out justice.

Jesus Himself addressed this issue when questioned about paying taxes to Caesar, in Matthew 22:21, he replied to the Jewish leaders:  _“Give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s._” Jesus acknowledged the legitimate role of earthly government while also reminding us that our ultimate allegiance belongs to God alone. Governments may receive taxes, but our worship, identity, and devotion belong only to God.

For Christians, paying taxes and obeying laws are a part of living honorably before God. Believers should be known as people of integrity who contribute to society rather than constantly resisting or exploiting it. Remember, every earthly kingdom is only temporary compared to the eternal rule of Christ.

*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
_If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor_

Paul concludes this section with four commands summarizing how Christians should live responsibly within our society. Believers are to “_give what is owed_” to those in authority. This includes not only financial obligations, but also the attitudes we show toward people.

*First: “_if you owe taxes, pay taxes._”* The word used here refers primarily to direct taxes such as land or personal taxes. Christians are not to avoid their civic responsibilities simply because they dislike the government or disagree with its policies.

*Second: “_if revenue, then revenue._”* This refers more to indirect taxes such as customs duties or tolls placed on goods and commerce. In essence, Paul is saying believers should conduct themselves honestly in all areas of public life and business.

*Third: “_if respect, then respect._”* The word “respect” carries the idea of reverence or proper regard for authority. Christians may strongly disagree with leaders or policies, but Scripture calls believers to avoid contempt, slander, and dishonor. “_Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor._” 1 Pet 2:17.

*Fourth: “_if honor, then honor.”_* Honor means recognizing the position and responsibility that authorities hold. This does not mean treating leaders as moral superior, or worthy of homage. Rather, Christians acknowledge that authority itself is part of God’s ordering of society.

In many ways, these commands summarize Christian citizenship. We are called to display a different spirit, one that reflects the character of Christ and points people toward His kingdom. 

*APPLICATION*
One of the greatest testimonies that we as Christians can give to the world is not what we say, but how we live. If we do not live the faith we proclaim, no one will listen to our words. Paul reminds believers that submission, honesty, respect, and integrity are all part of our witness to Christ. Christians should never be known for being dishonest, hateful, rebellious, or constantly outraged people. Instead, we should be known for our Christlike behavior and doing what is right even when it is difficult.

This does not mean we always agree with our governments or approve of the decisions leaders make. But it does mean that our conduct should always reflect the character of Christ. The world is watching how Christians speak, behave, work, pay what they owe, treat others, and respond to authority.

John Stott once wrote: “The greatest hindrance to the advance of the gospel worldwide is the failure of the lives of God’s people.” This is a critical point. The gospel is always hindered when Christians proclaim Christ with their lips but dishonor Him through their conduct.

So, guard your witness carefully. Guard your speech, your attitude, your honesty, and your humility. Ask yourself: Do my words online reflect Christ? Does the way I speak about leaders reflect the Spirit of Jesus? Am I known more for outrage or for integrity? As followers of Christ, we are called to live in such a way that people see not merely our opinions, but the love and character of Christ Himself shining through us.

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WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

By Steven Garofalo May 1, 2026

While each one of us enters the new week differently and at different stages of life, I’m reminded how temporal life is and how or present, difficult times are really when we are the strongest. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 “So, to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” A thorn was given to Paul, and I believe perhaps to most if not all of us. With Paul, this seems to have been some recurrent physical affliction. Perhaps a migraine headache, malaria, or epilepsy as many have suggested. Only God knows.  

Most importantly, Paul saw this as the work of Satan, permitted by God for a good purpose (keeping him humble). It could not be relieved through prayer in Paul’s case (v.8). But Paul makes clear in v.9 that “the power of Christ in him was more important than freedom from pain”. Paul makes clear that having to boast and defend himself made him feel foolish. It seems that everyone could see the thorn Paul suffered from-it was no secret. Some among the Corinthian Christians probably thought less of Paul because of his torn in the flesh, but they had known nothing of the amazing spiritual experience that lay behind it. The thorn, Paul said was bad used for good, as the New King James says, “a messenger of Satan”. God allowed Satan’s messenger to successfully keep Paul from becoming exhaled above measure…in his own eyes and that of others. Boy, how this hits home with most of us. Our failures are really chisel marks in our clay and mental makeup so that the Lord can use us “authentically”. 

This goes strongly against “numbers” as our barometer of success in our modern world. How many were saved, how many downloads, how many views and likes. What a joke-this is harmful if taken as success. Success is made one on one through each believer to others. And when we get too big for our own self, God will send a thorn. Whether that thorn is temporary or permanent, that’s up to Him not us. Either way, it is for our own ultimate good in both the temporal and eternal spectrum. 

Reflecting in all of this makes me think about the state of the church, Christianity, the United States, and the world. My conclusion is that we are all out of wack to some degree…some more than others. And as such, God is recalibrating us. There is no going back to the way things used to be. My mom is 90 years old and has a difficult time with this …understandably. But the Great Generation of World War2 was changed forever by war, Great Depression. And it left a thorn in their side. But then came the 1950’s. Good times came back. But things were different forever. And the thorn in many if not most all families and homes re: the loss of a lost one and the emotional and mental scars of war quietly lived in…the loss of children, husbands, friends and the like was a thorn fie that generation. Hence why they were serious and very matter of fact.  

 Suffering is real. Through Paul’s infirmities God made him completely dependent, but his continued-even forced-dependence upon God made him s thronged Paul did not resign himself to his fate; he welcomed it. He rejoiced that he could say, “WHEN I AM WEAK, THEN I AM STRONG”. “I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, THEN I am strong-Apostle Paul. This is not a one-day way of thinking, acting and being-it is how we chose to live our life-dependent on God or independent of His will for our lives. Calamities come to all. It is how we view, accept, and embrace them. Which will you choose?

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FROM SADNESS TO PERSEVERANCE
Living A Life Of Hope!

Apostle Paul viewed perseverance as a vital, Holy Spirit-empowered endurance of suffering, fueled by hope, calling, and the promise of eternal glory. He taught that trials develop character and hope (Romans 5:3-4), encouraging believers to not grow weary in doing good and to finish their faith "race".

Key Themes of Paul’s Teaching on Perseverance:Suffering Produces Character: Paul writes in Romans 5:3-4 that suffering leads to endurance (perseverance), which builds character and ultimately produces hope. Empowered by Grace: True perseverance is not self-striving but reliance on God’s power, as Paul notes in 1 Corinthians 15:10 that he labored harder than others, yet it was "the grace of God" within him. The "Race" Metaphor: Paul frequently used athletic metaphors, stating he "fought the good fight" and "finished the race" (2 Timothy 4:7), encouraging believers to remain steadfast to the end. Focus on Eternity: In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18, he encourages believers to look beyond temporary struggles to an "eternal weight of glory".

Joy in Trials: Paul modeled finding joy in suffering (Romans 5:3) and maintaining a mindset that trials are merely temporary, as shown in his letter to the Philippians.Key Verses on Perseverance by Paul:Romans 12:12: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."Galatians 6:9: "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. "2 Thessalonians 3:5: "May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance."2 Timothy 4:7:  "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."Pillars of Paul's Own Perseverance:Paul’s endurance was built on a firm conviction of his calling, a reliance on divine strength rather than human ability, and a focus on the reward of Christ, often prioritizing these over his own physical safety.

So I ask you..how you see perseverance in today’s crazy world? Are you willing to take the Sceipturel challenge to suffer in order to build character before the Lord daises you up to even higher levels of service, joy and blessing according to how much you and I can handle without letting success, lower and wealth get the best of us? Think about that-pray about that…

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