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A Tiger Doesn’t Change It’s Stripes
By Steven Garofalo, January 24, 2025 (Copyright 2025)
January 24, 2025

A Tiger Doesn’t Change It’s Stripes

Steven Garofalo M.A.A.   January 31, 2025

 

There are givers and takers in this world. Like a tiger, people show their true stripes as a “giver” or “taker” when given the chance.

Today, I am going to show you through Genesis chapter 12 how Lot’s selfish and sinful “taking” heart was unveiled when given the choice by Abram to choose which part of the land he wanted to inhabit. Let’s get started.

How often has a friend, boss, neighbor, or otherwise offered you something? Was the neighbor being neighborly or simply trying to be polite? Was what they were offering you something they really needed themselves but would do without themselves or was they offering out of their abundance? To be sure, it does take a bit of discernment to properly accept or decline an offer. Just because someone offers you something doesn’t always mean you should accept it. Instead, let’s stop and think of the other person, putting them before yourself. From there, you can make a more biblical acceptance of the blessing or decline the offer in and with gratitude. To be clear, there are times when people want to give out of sacrifice, they know it blesses them as well. It’s not always easy to know when it’s best to accept or kindly decline someone’s kindness, but it’s essential to look out for the needs of the other person.

A BIBLICAL EXAMPLE

In Genesis 13, we find Abram and Lot (Abram’s nephew) traveling to the land that God had promised Abram as a future Israel state. If you remember, Abram was very rich in livestock, silver and gold (v.2) and needed a lot of land for his tents, servant Shepards and animals. As it turns out, Lot needed much the same. Upon journeying from the Negeb as far as Bethel to the place where his tent had been at the beginning, between Bethel and Ai, to the place he had made an altar at the first, Abram called upon the name of the Lord. Lot came with them and shortly thereafter, “…there was strife between the herdsmen of Abraham’s livestock and the herdsmen of Lot’s livestock” (v.7)

THE OFFER MADE

To keep the peace, Abram was kind and offered Lot to choose between the very best the land had to offer and the rest of the rough countryside. Let’s remember that Abram was Lot’s senior, and as his older uncle, he was not his equal. It seems that this event of separation ought to have included some courtesy and a conversation about what was best for Uncle Abram who was kind enough to take his nephew with him in the first place. In verses 8-9, we see courtesy and magnanimity exhibited not by Lot but by Abraham, who was Lot’s senior kindsmen. They were relatives-family after all.

ABRAM KEEPS THE PEACE AND TRUST’S GOD

Abram says to Lot, “Let there be no strife between you and me, and between your herdsmen and my herdsmen, for we are kinsmen. Is not the whole land before you? Separate yourself from me. If you take the left hand, then I will go to the right, or if you take the right hand, then I will go to the left” (v.9). And Lot looked up and chose the Jordan Valley as “the Jordan Valley was well watered”.

A bit of history-Irrigation systems were in use long before Lot’s time. Lot’s GREED to inhabit the Jordan Valley with its lush vegetation exposed him to the wickedness of Sodom (vv.12-13; 10:1-25). This also included the city of Zoar, a town located at the southern end of the Dead Sea (14:8).

TAKING ADVANTAGE OF OTHERS

When we take whatever and whenever something is offered to us, we risk hurting the other person, losing our witness for Christ, and taking resources from places and person(s) that is may need it more than we do. Remember the Golden Rule?

The Golden Rule found in Luke 6:31 in the ESV which says, “And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.”

An AI entry from Google points out properly that taking advantage of others is considered bad (or wrong) because it involves exploiting someone's vulnerability or kindness for personal gain, which is disrespectful, unethical, and can cause significant harm to the person being used, potentially damaging their self-esteem, trust in others, and overall well-being; it is essentially treating someone unfairly and without regard for their feelings or needs. 

Key reasons why taking advantage of others is wrong:

·       Lack of respect:

It demonstrates a lack of respect for the other person's boundaries and dignity. 

·       Selfishness:

It prioritizes your own needs and desires above the well-being of another person. 

·       Potential for harm:

Being taken advantage of can lead to emotional distress, anxiety, and feelings of being powerless. 

·       Erosion of trust:

It damages the trust within relationships, making it difficult to build healthy connections. 

·       Moral implications:

Most ethical frameworks consider taking advantage of others as morally wrong. 

Source

THE LESSON

Did Lot give thought as to Abram’s needs? Did Lot put Abram’s needs first-before his own? Did Lot act “selfish” or “selfless”? I would submit that Lot acted selfishly in his own interest without giving thought to his kind uncle Abram who took him on the journey to begin with. That said, we as Christians read this story and learn how to better live the Christian life through the example of these two biblical characters. It’s clear that we want to emulate Abram and not Lot as we live out our daily lives with our husband, wife, children, friends, neighbors and co-workers.

CONCLUSION

The words of Jesus, that He Himself said, 'It is more blessed to give than to receive'” (Acts 20:35).

In all things I have shown you how, working like this, you must help the weak, remembering the words of the Lord Jesus, how He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ”

More than anything giving draws our heart to God our creator and his son Jesus Christ. When you give, you’re not to talk about it with others or the person. Accolades come from God. Never forget God gave his only begotten son so we could live. It’s a gift. So don’t give expecting a return. Just live life to love God for all he is.

In the end, remember, there are givers and takers in this world. Like a tiger, people show their true stripes as a “giver” or “taker” when given the chance. Today, we saw through Genesis chapter 12 how Lot’s selfish and sinful “taking” heart was unveiled when given the choice by Abram to choose which part of the land he wanted to inhabit. Lot could have easily asked Abram what he wanted or split the difference to be more fare. But he didn’t. Lot’s stripes were on full display in Genesis 12 and so are ours when we are put in similar circumstances. Let’s choose our stripes wisely and biblically when the time comes.

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Steven Garofalo, March 10, 2025 (Copyright 2025)

Everybody Is An Investor-So What Then? PT2

Steven Garofalo M.A.A.  March 10, 2025

 

WELCOME to Part2 of Everybody is an investor. In Part One, we looked at what king Solomon said about investing in Ecclesiastes along with other biblical Scriptures as a general template. Today, we are going to look at the Book of James, chapter one, verses 9-12 to gain God’s wisdom regarding what we are to do with the fruits of our investment once God has blessed us with them. Let’s get started.

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TODAY’S TRUTH TEXT: JAMES 1:9-12

“9 Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation, 10 and the rich in his humiliation, because like a flower of the grass[a] he will pass away. 11 For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits”. 12 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. (James 1:9-12 ESV).

BREAKING DOWN JAMES 1:9-12

1)    Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation: Lowly probably means “poor”, in contrast to the other man who is rich. The poor believer is to “glory” (“count it all joy” v.2) in the fact that God has exalted him by allowing him to experience difficult circumstances. For these will only perfect his character and faith (v.4). Simply put, we are to increase and personify a character that exalts God and not ourselves in seeing God above ourselves, and even others are greater than us.

2)    10 and the rich in his humiliation: The rich believer can also glory when a trial brings him low because it teaches him that life is short (because like a flower of the grass he will pass away.), and that “his pursuits”, that is, his business, will “fade away”. The rich man should always trust the Lord, not himself or his money. What James means by “his humiliation” is that either by losing his money or by being brought through circumstance in order to realize that money means little and is at best transitory. To have humility is to understand that wealth and our investments are temporal, not eternal.

3)    11 For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits. God makes clear here through James that the rich are no different from the beautiful, but temporary, “flowering grass”. James probably had in mind physical death for the rich person, which might come suddenly, even “in the midst of” one’s “pursuits”. At that time, wealth is of no advantage. Simply put, the sun rises the same exact time for the poor, middle class, and the rich. The same is true in the length of time (generally speaking). And like the withering grass, we all grow old if God allows such a blessing and pass into His presence. No amount of money can buy eternal life-only God can grant that to us.

4)    “12 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. Verse 12 hinges upon six key words which are when he has stood the test”. After having stood the test-crown of life. The crown is eternal life, one of the rewards or prizes for the Christian. 1 Corinthians 3:14 tells us “If the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward”. The REWARD spoken about there is ETERNAL SALVATION. It's important to note that salvation is a free gift, but rewards, for those who are saved are earned. Going one extra verse to v.13, the quality of our service (v.13) is the criterion. Rewards are often spoken of as crowns (9:25); 1 Thess. 2:19; 2 Tim. 4:8; James 1:12.

 

BREAKING DOWN JAMES 1:9-12

1)    ARROGENCE

2)    Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation: Lowly probably means “poor”, in contrast to the other man who is rich. The poor believer is to “glory” (“count it all joy” v.2) in the fact that God has exalted him by allowing him to experience difficult circumstances. For these will only perfect his character and faith (v.4).

3)    10 and the rich in his humiliation: The rich believer can also glory when a trial brings him low because it teaches him that life is short (because like a flower of the grass he will pass away.), and that “his pursuits”, that is, his business, will “fade away”. The rich man should always trust the Lord, not himself or his money. What James means by “his humiliation” is that either by losing his money or by being brought through circumstance for him to realize that money means little and is at best transitory.

4)    11 For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits. The rich are no different from the beautiful, but temporary, “flowering grass”. James probably had in mind physical death for the rich person, which might come suddenly, even “in the midst of” one’s “pursuits”. At that time, wealth is of no advantage.

5)    “12 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. Verse 12 hinges upon six key words which are when he has stood the test”. After having stood the test-crown of life. The crown is eternal life, one of the rewards or prizes for the Christian. 1 Corinthians 3:14 tells us “If the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward”. The REWARD is SALVATION and salvation is a free gift, but rewards, for those who are saved are earned. Going one extra verse to v.13, the quality of our service (v.13) is the criterion. Rewards are often spoken of as crowns (9:25); 1 Thess. 2:19; 2 Tim. 4:8; James 1:12.

CONCLUSION

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By Steven Garofalo, March 7, 2025 (Copyright 2025)

Everybody Is An Investor PT1

Steven Garofalo M.A.A. March 7, 2025

 

In 2024, 62% of US adults invested in the stock market, according to Statista. This is a 20 year high. 87% of upper-income, 65% of middle-income, and 25% of lower-income Americans own stocks.

TODAY, through James 1:9-12, I am going to show you how we as Christians are to invest above all other means. Furthermore, we are going to learn what God tells us considering how we are to act and think in relation to the amount, levels and value of our earthly investments.

While a large percentage of people participate, the wealthiest individuals own a disproportionately large share of stocks. According to an article by the BUSINESS INSIDER, written by Jennifer Sor, January 10, 2024, the wealthiest 10% of Americans own 93% of stocks even with market participation at a record high.

·       The richest Americans own the vast majority of the US stock market, according to Fed data.

·       The top 10% of Americans held 93% of all stocks, the highest level ever recorded.

·       Meanwhile, the bottom 50% of Americans held just 1% of all stocks in the third quarter of 2023.

The wealthiest Americans have never owned so much of the stock market, with the top 10% now holding a record 93% of US equities, according to Federal Reserve data. https://finance.yahoo.com/news/wealthiest-10-americans-own-93-033623827.html

ARE CHRISTIANS TO INVEST?

Ecclesiastes 11:1-6 makes clear that monetary investing is good with king Solomon telling us to: “Cast your bread upon the waters, for you will find it after many days. Give a portion to seven, or even to eight, for you know not what disaster may happen on earth. If the clouds are full of rain, they empty themselves on the earth, and if a tree falls to the south or to the north, in the place where the tree falls, there it will lie. He who observes the wind will not sow, and he who regards the clouds will not reap. As you do not know the way the spirit comes to the bones in the womb of a woman with child, so you do not know the work of God who makes everything.”

WHAT IS KING SOLOMON SAYING?

King Solomon is saying that we are invest, and as a wise investor we ought not always be averse to taking some risk, especially when there is genuine possibility of real gain (v.1). The adverse is to become like the lazy sluggard and fail laid in verse four which says, “HE WHO OBSERVES THE WIND WILL NOT SOW, AND HE WHO RAGARDS THE CLOUDS WILL NOT REAP”. In other words, there is a real danger in being overly cautious in light of life and nature’s unpredictability. Investing part of life and the only way to get ahead and have a more rewarding life. Reckless or taking excess risk by the can be bad, especially in your older years. But taking some risk can always be good. Risk to move to a new city, state or country can be good in our older years. In the end, taking some risk to start a business in retirement can be very good for our minds and our financial well-being. Risk at most any time in life is biblical and can be exciting and rewarding.

WARNING-INVESTMENT OF ANOTHER KIND IS MORE IMPORTANT

But then Luke 12:33-34 makes clear that investment of another kind is even more important, saying to: “Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with moneybags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”

God warns us through Luke what we might do with the fruits of our investments in that you are to “sell what you have”. This contrasts with the world’s hoarding of possessions; the disciple must be generous with what God gives. “MONEY BAGS WHICH DO NOT GROW OLD”: By serving God and others, you can invest in your eternal future. You cannot take possessions with you in the next life, but you can store up an eternal treasure by giving to others. In the end, as verse 34 makes clear, what people consider valuable is WHERE their energy will be spent. Knowing God and investing in His purposes should be where we invest and the TREASURE we seek.

Please allow me to leave you with one thought about today’s investor. In 2024, 62% of US adults invested in the stock market, according to Statista. This is a 20-year high. 87% of upper-income, 65% of middle-income, and 25% of lower-income Americans own stocks. Perhaps the truth is a good portion of that 87% of today’s upper-income investors have been investing a bit too much in the wrong places. Perhaps a good portion of the 65% of middle-income have been investing in the wrong areas of life. And what about the 25% of lower-income Americans who own stocks? Perhaps they are “watching the clouds” (v.4) and not investing enough. Or maybe, just maybe, they are investing properly in God’s kingdom. God’s authentic followers are found across all three classes of income and people. I think the question becomes an issue of where their heart is and where they are with their relationship to Jesus Christ and the biblical teachings. In any case, let’s remember that EVERYONE IS AN INVESTOR. It’s not a matter of IF but WHERE. Let’s choose wisely.

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America's Guilt Culture & The Death Penalty PT1
By Steven Garofalo, March 3, 2025 (Copyright 2025)

 AMERICA’S GUILT CULTURE AND JUSTICE – A Basic Understanding - PT1

Steven Garofalo M.A.A.      January 17, 2025

 

This series started as America’s Guilt Culture and the Death. I think this is important because we can be a “National of Laws”, but if we don’t properly execute the law, we quickly become “Lawless”. As a result, today, I want to start with some application in order to wade into this subject in parts rather than in one big article. In this multi-part series, we are going to look at the Death Penalty and what the Bible says about Capital Punishment or the “Death Penalty”.

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS-The Scriptures Are Clear

“Whoever sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed, for God made man in His own image” (Genesis 9:6).

Leviticus 24:17 states, "Whoever takes the life of any human being shall be put to death"

REASONS WHY PEOPLE DON’T SUPPORT OR BELIEVE IN THE DEATH PENTALTY

1)    It’s wrong to kill. We all have the right to life and nobody deserves to be killed; despite what the Bible says. My response is directed at the “despite what the Bible says”. The thought that one’s virtue or self-proclaimed vision of goodness-if above God's Word is a sin and evil. All of God’s attributes are equal, including His mercy and His justice. God makes the rules, not us. The Bible is clear that to knowingly “murder” (premeditatively taking an innocent life) must be paid with the life of the murder of him or herself.

2)    Innocent people will be murdered if we have the death penalty: With the advent of DNA and modern science, changed social norms and the reduction of prejudice in society, the chances of being wrongly convicted are very low if existent at all. Furthermore, the Death Penalty mandates a bi-cameral system that mandates a separate hearing to see if one even qualifies for the death penalty to begin with. The argument is valid one in light of past culture and technology or lack thereof. In today’s world, with the advent of cameras, DNA, Cell phone data, etc. there is few places one can hide. This argument has been so abused in our modern age that innocent people are being murdered-namely those who are let out of jail after murdering to murder again. While possible, it’s highly unlikely for one to be wrongfully convicted and sentenced with the death penalty in our modern age.

3)    The Death Penalty is not a deterrent: The simple answer to this objection is that IF the death penalty would be applied SWIFTLY and WIDELY, it would have an immediate chilling effect on public behavior-especially the murder rate. At present, it takes at least a decade and in many cases much longer to execute a person who is on death row due to the length of the appeals process.

CONCLUSION

The United States or any nation can claim to be a “National of Laws”, but if we don’t properly and biblically execute the law, we quickly become a nation of “Lawlessness”. What the Bible says about Capital Punishment or the “Death Penalty” is just as true as any other Scripture reference in the Bible. We cannot choose to apply or don't apply, or we violate God’s laws, His Word, and His will. In our next entry (Part 2), I will show you in detail that Americans have become a “guilt culture” and how that has led to even more lawlessness-and (for many) a rejection of the death penalty against God’s Word.  Let's remember the Words of God who said, “Whoever sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed, for God made man in His own image” (Genesis 9:6). "Whoever takes the life of any human being shall be put to death" (Leviticus 24:17) .

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