I was reading in Matthew 23 this morning, and issue and importance of “Faithfulness” came up. Let’s read:
23 “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness. These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others. 24 You blind guides, straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel!" (Matthew 23:23-24)
It’s easy to read through or over the fact that God lists three things that over-religious people tend to skip over or ignore: JUSTICE, MERCY and “FAITHFULNESS”. Why do I make such a big deal about faithfulness? Because it’s becoming more and more rare that people, even within the church to be faithful people because they lack faithfulness.
WHAT IS FAITHFULNESS? Merriam Webster Dictionary defines faithfulness as “Steadfast in affection or allegiance” LOYAL, a friend, Firm in adherence to PROMISES”.
The last one is the key. We make covenants which are promises. We give our word that we will do something, be there, or carry through with something…and then we don’t.
My old boss made me promise twice that I would attend the funeral of his wife who was dying of MS. As a matter of facet, he called me back into his office to make me promise twice. I made the promise. She died a number of years later but I had already moved to Charlotte, NC. I flew back to Maryland and was the only person at the grave site that was not family. They were shocked and a bit uncomfortable. I told my past boss that I had given my word, made a promise, and I have to be faithful to fulfill that promise. I spent all of 6 hours there before going back to the airport, getting on an airplane and flying home.
He later told me, “You didn’t have to be there”. I told him, “Yes I did”. It’s OK to release someone of their promise, but if not released, a person must carry through with their promise.
And this is what it means to be FAITHFUL. I don't always get things right as an imperfect sinner, but keeping a promise is something I take very serious. Faithfully keeping up with friends of old is important as a “faithful” friend. Too many of of us today fail to appreciate friends of old and promises made to others. But, many of us do keep our word, keep our promises and appreciate friends of old. What matters most outside of God and others? As a result of being "faithful", we become better friends, more faithful people and to others. Most importantly, we are faithful to God who gave us this the command to be faithful in the first place. When we are faithful to God first we tend to naturally become faithful to others more naturally. Lastly, people will be drawn to your faith in Christ as the greatest witness. And this is what it means to be faithful.
WHAT DO YOU THINK? You tell me.-Steven