In an article by the Cripplegate “for a new generation of non-conformists”, quoting ROMANS 12:1-2 (speaking of being a living sacrifice), Writer Jordan Standridge, opens his article published August 14, 2018, titled, THE LOST OF OF HOSPITALITY with this one all important question, “WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU HAD SOMEONE OVER TOYOUR HOME?”
Jordan writes that so many Christians rarely, if ever, have people in their homes. If they do, it is just family or a few select friends. Some people don’t even know their neighbor’s name, let along have them over for a meal.
Jordan notes that the practice of hospitality is one of the greatest tools that God can use in our personal sanctification. It shows the art of giving and giving to our children and demonstrates the love of Christ to them and those you welcome into your home. Perhaps, more than anything or anyone else, we ourselves are blessed beyond measure through the act of giving of ourselves. After all, in the words of Jesus himself, "It is more blessed to give than to recieve" (Acts 20:35). This doesn’t mean that spend a lot of money feeding others, but rather that we facilitate gathering friends and family in our homes as one community; which entails giving of ourselves in the process".
HOSPITALITY HELPS THE HEART OF COMMUNICATION
We live in an era of technology that has raised up a generation of young people who have not the skilss to verbally talk with the person sitting right next to them; opting to text them instead. Jordan writes that after talking with hundreds of college students, that it is quite obvious that for the most part, they don’t know how to hold a conversation due to technology and the lack of hospitality shown/demonstrated in their own home.
HOSPITALITY HELPS AGAINST SELFISHNESS
Lastly, hospitality is a small way to say “I want to love you without expecting anything in return.” Especially if we invite people who seriously can’t return the gift. Whether they are the orphans, the widows, the poor, the young singles, or even reaching out to people of other ethnicities than us, we should be in the business of selflessly having people into ur home for the purpose of helping ourselves and this we host to grow more in love for and with Christ. Paul tells us to “contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality” (Romans 12:13). Sacrificial giving without expecting anything in return is at the heart of the Gospel, so it is a great picture of what Christ has done for us.
Lastly, hospitality helps with evangelism. Having people over on a consistent basis helps you and me with greater opportunities togo deeper in conversation with others we have over. This in turn opens the door to see how our guests are doing spiritually. With unbelievers, it provides an opportunity to talk to and about their soul. Paul says that he didn’t just share the Gospel with people but his life as well.
"So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us" (1Thess. 2:8).
The alternative is that we can keep to ourselves. We can sit in front of the television or computer screen…or simply keep to ourselves altogether. This amounts to hording our most precious commodity-OURSELVES. And that my friends is a net loss, a travesty, a sin, and a waste of the wonderful gift(s) God has given us as believers in Jesus Christ-the opportunity to share ourselves and the love of Jesus Christ through our hospitality.