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MARRIED PEOPLE MORE LIKELY TO BE THRIVING

Married People More Likely to Be ‘Thriving’: Gallup Survey
Ben Johnson / @TheRightsWriter / March 25, 2024 (DAILY SIGNAL)

Married couples are more likely to be happy today, anticipate future happiness, and have a “strong and loving” relationship with their children than cohabiting partners.

A new Gallup survey has found that, over more than a decade, one variable has consistently predicted whether people described themselves as “thriving”: marriage. Married couples are more likely to be happy today, anticipate future happiness, and have a “strong and loving” relationship with their children than cohabiting partners.

Gallup classified respondents into one of three groups—“thriving,” “struggling,” or “suffering”—based on how they rated their home lives. Surveying data over 14 years, Gallup found that married couples consistently rated their current lives, and their likelihood of future happiness, better than those who lived together outside marriage or had a committed relationship without living together. The happiness differential ran into double digits.

“Within the U.S., it is clear that married adults rate their lives more highly than others and have done so for the past 15 years,” the survey, released last Friday, concluded. “From 2009 to 2023, married adults aged 25 to 50 were more likely to be thriving—by double-digit margins—than adults who have never married. The 16-percentage-point gap between married adults (61%) and those who have never married (45%) in 2023 is within the range of 10 to 24 points recorded since 2009.”

Marriage’s emotional bonus held true “for men and women across all major racial/ethnic groups” and “is not explained by other demographic characteristics—such as age, race/ethnicity or education.”

Gallup researchers found wedded couples less prone to communication breakdowns in their relationships. Married couples were half as likely (26%) to say they experienced two or more days in the last month where they or their partner felt so angry they could not speak to each other than those living together (46%) or dating exclusive (41%). Interestingly, living together outside marriage made people 12% more likely to argue than dating exclusively while living separately.

Lawfully wedded husbands and wives also experienced greater closeness with their children: 83% of married couples with children between the ages of three and 19 say they have a “strong and loving” relationship with their kids, compared with 69% in a domestic partnership, and 61% in a “non-domestic exclusive relationship.”

Marriage is also linked to another predictor of happiness: having children. “Marriage also increases the likelihood of having children and is associated with better relationships with those children,” write Gallup researchers, pointing to the group’s 2023 Familial and Adolescent Health Survey.

Married parents, and even divorced parents, say they have more affectionate relationships with their own children than those who were never married, the report discovered, in addition to finding that “married parents are significantly less likely than divorced or never-married parents to report that their child is frequently out of control.”

“Finally, ideologically conservative parents report higher-quality and more harmonious relationships with their children compared with liberal or moderate parents,” Gallup’s team noted.

The new Gallup research report speculates the likelihood of entering a permanent, lifelong, and (in Christianity) unbreakable union must “encourage greater partner selection, as well as greater investments and effort to develop and maintain a high-quality relationship.”

Although married people report higher levels of happiness regardless of their religious status, “[m]arried people are also more likely to practice a religion, and religious practice is also positively correlated with subjective wellbeing.”

Gallup’s research reinforces numerous other studies showing married people, parents, and Christians who actively practice their faith enjoy greater happiness, contentment, and quality of life than unmarried couples, agnostics, atheists, and “Nones”:

“Americans who have never married, are not religious, and have lower levels of formal education feel their lives have meaning less often than other Americans do,” according to the November 2023 American Enterprise Institute’s Survey Center on American Life. “Overall, religious Americans tend to believe their life is meaningful more often than do those who are not religious.”
Americans who believe in God and value marriage are more likely to be “very happy” than non-believers and single people, according to a Wall Street Journal-NORC poll taken last March.
Parents “with two children had a risk of suicide 70% less than their childless peers,” wrote Brad Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia and a fellow at the Institute of Family Studies, summarizing a Scandinavian study.
Americans who attended religious services regularly were 44% more likely to say they were “very happy” than those who never or rarely attended, found a 2019 Pew Research Center study.
Christians who read the Bible regularly rated a higher score on the Human Flourishing Index than non-practicing Christians or the religiously unaffiliated, found a American Bible Society report last June. Active Christians and non-Christians diverged the most when it came to whether they felt their lives had “meaning & purpose.”
A Harvard study found childhood religious activities, such as prayer, paid great dividends later in life, even if the children subsequently left the faith. “[P]eople who attended weekly religious services or practiced daily prayer or meditation in their youth reported greater life satisfaction and positivity in their 20s—and were less likely to subsequently have depressive symptoms, smoke, use illicit drugs, or have a sexually transmitted infection—than people raised with less regular spiritual habits,” according to a summary of a 2018 study conducted by researchers from Harvard University’s T.H. Chan School of Public Health.
The “Handbook of Religion and Health” has “reviewed 326 articles on the relationship between health and measures of “religiosity and subjective well-being, happiness, or life satisfaction,” finding that 79% of those studies reported that religious people were happier, while only 1% reported that they were less happy (the rest found no or mixed findings),” reported Stephen Cranney, a nonresident fellow at Baylor University’s Institute for the Studies of Religion who teaches at The Catholic University of America.
Despite these robust findings, Americans are less likely to believe marriage and an active Christian life make people happy.

“The General Social Survey documented a decline between 1988 and 2012 in the percentage of U.S. adults who agreed that married people are generally happier than unmarried people,” Gallup notes in Friday’s survey.

Similarly, a Pew Research Center poll last September found 71% of Americans say a fulfilling job makes for a good life, while only 23% say being married (and 26% say having children) are “extremely important in order for people to live a fulfilling life.”

Instead, culture celebrates the LGBTQ movement, despite the well-attested links between transgenderism/same-sex sexual behavior and poor mental health outcomes:

“Female students, LGBQ+ students, and students who had any same-sex partners were more likely than their peers to experience poor mental health and suicidal thoughts and behaviors,” said a February 2023 report from the Biden administration’s Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Teenagers who identified as LGBTQ were twice as likely to report “poor mental health” as those who identified as heterosexual, three times as likely to have “seriously considered attempting suicide” or “made a suicide plan,” and 366.6% more likely to have attempted suicide, the CDC found.
“A higher prevalence of substance use and mental health issues has been well-documented among people who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual (also referred to as sexual minorities) than among those who identify as heterosexual or straight,” noted a 2023 report from the Biden administration’s U.S. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. Women who have sex with members of both sexes (bisexuals) were six times as likely to have attempted suicide within the last year as women who identify as straight, and three times as likely to abuse opioid drugs. Bisexual men were three times as likely to have had a serious mental illness in the last year, SAMHSA found.
Two-thirds (67%) of Americans who identify as bisexual, and half (48%) of self-identified gays, said they felt “uncertain about who they were supposed to be” in the last year, as compared to about 1 out of 4 (29%) of those who identify as straight, the American Enterprise Institute’s survey found.
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This is an exclusive video for my community. We should all be very encouraged as God has protected us as Christians to live out and share the Gospel another day. That said, the two greatest cities in Western Judeo-Christian history are London and New York City-both of which are now under the control of radical Islamists. That said, God is at the helm but we are His servants for good. "For the one in authority is God's servant of your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God's servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer." (Romans 13:4 NIV).

It's time for all of us to get off the bench and into the game. Please consider me a resource as my Masters degree in Apologetics was completed with an Emphasis on Islamic Studies. I would encourage you to have me speak at your school, church, Bible study or Sunday school class. Simple click on the LINK below to schedule a call with me and have a biblically blessed day-Steven...

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FROM SUFFERING TO PERSEVERANCE

We live in difficult times in trying times full of suffering. The secret to pushing through and overcoming suffering is to persevere. In today's episode Steven is going to take us through the Word of God, focussing on the Apostle Paul's words regarding why, how and when to persevere through trials and times of suffering. Tune in and if you like-take notes. Thank you for tuning in and let's get started!

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IS YOUR SOUL WEARY?

"Is your soul weary? Jesus offers rest that is much deeper than physical rest- He gives you rest in mind, soul and spirit."
Matt 11:28

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*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
Romans 13:5–7 (NIV)
“_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing. Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor._”

*BACKGROUND/CONTEXT*
Beginning in Romans 12, Paul shifted his message from explaining the theology of the gospel to describing how the gospel should transform our lives and how we should live as believers. 

In Romans 12, believers are called to become “living sacrifices,” marked by humility, love, peace, and overcoming evil with good. Then in Romans 13:1-4, which we studied yesterday, Paul applied these principles to the Christian’s relationship with governing authorities. He explained that government is part of God’s “ordering of society” and that believers should live respectfully and peacefully within the nations where God has placed them.

Today, Paul continues this teaching by moving from the general principle of submission to practical examples of Christian conduct within society. 

*SUBMISSION AND CONSCIENCE*
_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience_

In yesterday’s study, Paul focused on our external submission to governing authorities. However, in today’s study, he moves to our inward motivation. As Christians, we are not only to obey authorities because we fear punishment, but because we understand that honoring lawful authority is part of living faithfully before God. In other words, submission is not simply about avoiding consequences; it is also about maintaining a clear conscience before the Lord.

The word “conscience” (_syneidēsis_) refers to our inner moral awareness, our God-given understanding of right and wrong. For believers, our conscience is shaped by the Holy Spirit and the truth of God’s Word. Paul’s point is that we as Christians should want to do what is right - not because we are forced to, but because our hearts have been transformed by Christ.

This same idea appears in 1 Peter 2:15, where Peter writes: “_For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people._” Christians should be known as people of integrity whose conduct reflects their faith even when no one is watching.

In a culture that often celebrates rebellion, outrage, and hostility toward authority, we are called to demonstrate humility, wisdom, self-control, and peaceful living. Our goal is not to win political arguments, but to live with a clear conscience and a faithful witness before both God and the world.

*PAYING TAXES AND SERVING SOCIETY*
_This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing_

Paul now moves from the principle of submission to a practical example: paying taxes. In the Roman world, taxes were unpopular and burdensome, just as they are for many people today. Yet Paul teaches that Christians should willingly pay those taxes they owe. This is because government, despite its faults, serves an important role in maintaining order within society.

Again, Paul describes governing authorities as “God’s servants.” This time he uses the Greek word (_leitourgos_), which is normally used for public service or even priestly ministry. Paul’s point is not that rulers are spiritually righteous, but that God can use civil authorities to accomplish His purposes, especially in maintaining order, protecting people, and carrying out justice.

Jesus Himself addressed this issue when questioned about paying taxes to Caesar, in Matthew 22:21, he replied to the Jewish leaders:  _“Give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s._” Jesus acknowledged the legitimate role of earthly government while also reminding us that our ultimate allegiance belongs to God alone. Governments may receive taxes, but our worship, identity, and devotion belong only to God.

For Christians, paying taxes and obeying laws are a part of living honorably before God. Believers should be known as people of integrity who contribute to society rather than constantly resisting or exploiting it. Remember, every earthly kingdom is only temporary compared to the eternal rule of Christ.

*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
_If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor_

Paul concludes this section with four commands summarizing how Christians should live responsibly within our society. Believers are to “_give what is owed_” to those in authority. This includes not only financial obligations, but also the attitudes we show toward people.

*First: “_if you owe taxes, pay taxes._”* The word used here refers primarily to direct taxes such as land or personal taxes. Christians are not to avoid their civic responsibilities simply because they dislike the government or disagree with its policies.

*Second: “_if revenue, then revenue._”* This refers more to indirect taxes such as customs duties or tolls placed on goods and commerce. In essence, Paul is saying believers should conduct themselves honestly in all areas of public life and business.

*Third: “_if respect, then respect._”* The word “respect” carries the idea of reverence or proper regard for authority. Christians may strongly disagree with leaders or policies, but Scripture calls believers to avoid contempt, slander, and dishonor. “_Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor._” 1 Pet 2:17.

*Fourth: “_if honor, then honor.”_* Honor means recognizing the position and responsibility that authorities hold. This does not mean treating leaders as moral superior, or worthy of homage. Rather, Christians acknowledge that authority itself is part of God’s ordering of society.

In many ways, these commands summarize Christian citizenship. We are called to display a different spirit, one that reflects the character of Christ and points people toward His kingdom. 

*APPLICATION*
One of the greatest testimonies that we as Christians can give to the world is not what we say, but how we live. If we do not live the faith we proclaim, no one will listen to our words. Paul reminds believers that submission, honesty, respect, and integrity are all part of our witness to Christ. Christians should never be known for being dishonest, hateful, rebellious, or constantly outraged people. Instead, we should be known for our Christlike behavior and doing what is right even when it is difficult.

This does not mean we always agree with our governments or approve of the decisions leaders make. But it does mean that our conduct should always reflect the character of Christ. The world is watching how Christians speak, behave, work, pay what they owe, treat others, and respond to authority.

John Stott once wrote: “The greatest hindrance to the advance of the gospel worldwide is the failure of the lives of God’s people.” This is a critical point. The gospel is always hindered when Christians proclaim Christ with their lips but dishonor Him through their conduct.

So, guard your witness carefully. Guard your speech, your attitude, your honesty, and your humility. Ask yourself: Do my words online reflect Christ? Does the way I speak about leaders reflect the Spirit of Jesus? Am I known more for outrage or for integrity? As followers of Christ, we are called to live in such a way that people see not merely our opinions, but the love and character of Christ Himself shining through us.

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WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

By Steven Garofalo May 1, 2026

While each one of us enters the new week differently and at different stages of life, I’m reminded how temporal life is and how or present, difficult times are really when we are the strongest. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 “So, to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” A thorn was given to Paul, and I believe perhaps to most if not all of us. With Paul, this seems to have been some recurrent physical affliction. Perhaps a migraine headache, malaria, or epilepsy as many have suggested. Only God knows.  

Most importantly, Paul saw this as the work of Satan, permitted by God for a good purpose (keeping him humble). It could not be relieved through prayer in Paul’s case (v.8). But Paul makes clear in v.9 that “the power of Christ in him was more important than freedom from pain”. Paul makes clear that having to boast and defend himself made him feel foolish. It seems that everyone could see the thorn Paul suffered from-it was no secret. Some among the Corinthian Christians probably thought less of Paul because of his torn in the flesh, but they had known nothing of the amazing spiritual experience that lay behind it. The thorn, Paul said was bad used for good, as the New King James says, “a messenger of Satan”. God allowed Satan’s messenger to successfully keep Paul from becoming exhaled above measure…in his own eyes and that of others. Boy, how this hits home with most of us. Our failures are really chisel marks in our clay and mental makeup so that the Lord can use us “authentically”. 

This goes strongly against “numbers” as our barometer of success in our modern world. How many were saved, how many downloads, how many views and likes. What a joke-this is harmful if taken as success. Success is made one on one through each believer to others. And when we get too big for our own self, God will send a thorn. Whether that thorn is temporary or permanent, that’s up to Him not us. Either way, it is for our own ultimate good in both the temporal and eternal spectrum. 

Reflecting in all of this makes me think about the state of the church, Christianity, the United States, and the world. My conclusion is that we are all out of wack to some degree…some more than others. And as such, God is recalibrating us. There is no going back to the way things used to be. My mom is 90 years old and has a difficult time with this …understandably. But the Great Generation of World War2 was changed forever by war, Great Depression. And it left a thorn in their side. But then came the 1950’s. Good times came back. But things were different forever. And the thorn in many if not most all families and homes re: the loss of a lost one and the emotional and mental scars of war quietly lived in…the loss of children, husbands, friends and the like was a thorn fie that generation. Hence why they were serious and very matter of fact.  

 Suffering is real. Through Paul’s infirmities God made him completely dependent, but his continued-even forced-dependence upon God made him s thronged Paul did not resign himself to his fate; he welcomed it. He rejoiced that he could say, “WHEN I AM WEAK, THEN I AM STRONG”. “I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, THEN I am strong-Apostle Paul. This is not a one-day way of thinking, acting and being-it is how we chose to live our life-dependent on God or independent of His will for our lives. Calamities come to all. It is how we view, accept, and embrace them. Which will you choose?

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FROM SADNESS TO PERSEVERANCE
Living A Life Of Hope!

Apostle Paul viewed perseverance as a vital, Holy Spirit-empowered endurance of suffering, fueled by hope, calling, and the promise of eternal glory. He taught that trials develop character and hope (Romans 5:3-4), encouraging believers to not grow weary in doing good and to finish their faith "race".

Key Themes of Paul’s Teaching on Perseverance:Suffering Produces Character: Paul writes in Romans 5:3-4 that suffering leads to endurance (perseverance), which builds character and ultimately produces hope. Empowered by Grace: True perseverance is not self-striving but reliance on God’s power, as Paul notes in 1 Corinthians 15:10 that he labored harder than others, yet it was "the grace of God" within him. The "Race" Metaphor: Paul frequently used athletic metaphors, stating he "fought the good fight" and "finished the race" (2 Timothy 4:7), encouraging believers to remain steadfast to the end. Focus on Eternity: In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18, he encourages believers to look beyond temporary struggles to an "eternal weight of glory".

Joy in Trials: Paul modeled finding joy in suffering (Romans 5:3) and maintaining a mindset that trials are merely temporary, as shown in his letter to the Philippians.Key Verses on Perseverance by Paul:Romans 12:12: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."Galatians 6:9: "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. "2 Thessalonians 3:5: "May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance."2 Timothy 4:7:  "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."Pillars of Paul's Own Perseverance:Paul’s endurance was built on a firm conviction of his calling, a reliance on divine strength rather than human ability, and a focus on the reward of Christ, often prioritizing these over his own physical safety.

So I ask you..how you see perseverance in today’s crazy world? Are you willing to take the Sceipturel challenge to suffer in order to build character before the Lord daises you up to even higher levels of service, joy and blessing according to how much you and I can handle without letting success, lower and wealth get the best of us? Think about that-pray about that…

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