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“GOD’S CHEAT SHEET FOR UNDERSTANDING OTHERS AND EVANGELISM”
By Steven Garofalo, January 5, 2023 (Copyright 2024)
January 05, 2024

The Merriam-Webster defines a cheat sheet as “a written or graphic aid (such as a sheet or notes) that can be referred to for help in understanding and remembering something complex”. In basic form, the Parables of Jesus were given to us as a written graphic aid to help us better understand, more simply through story the more complex lessons from God.

In one of the most important parables Jesus gave us, the parable of the “SOWER” in Mark 4. I want to point out some subtle but important things about this parable and the importance of the words of Jesus for our lives and the lives He calls us to impact with the Gospel message of Jesus Christ as written about in the Jewish Scriptures and the New Testament. I will break down a few points for our takeaway today in light of starting the new year.

FIRST: Mark 4:1 opens with Again He (Jesus) began to teach beside the sea.” Jesus had been teaching a lot, and kept teaching non-stop throughout His short but world changing life-time. My challenge to you and myself is that we do the same by awaking each morning by “AGAIN”, serving God faithfully in all He calls us to do that day. Each day is new and carries a new mission for that brief 24 hour period of time. Let’s be faithful stewards to the time, talents and people God calls us to daily.

SECOND: In Mark 4: 3, Jesus opens his parable in of the seeds/sower with one word which is “LISTEN”. When Jesus says “LISTEN” we are wise to do so. Then He goes into the parable of the sower and. The seeds (different people and their condition of their faith). Jesus opens each day with the simple command to “LISTEN” to His biblically recorded Word. This is a daily call, not a Sunday EXCERCISE. Let’s be in God’s Word and prayer daily for 10-20 minutes to start and grow that in God’s time.

THIRD: God will open your eyes more deeply to His truth when we get and STAY consistently in His Word. In Mark 4:13, Jesus said, “…Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand all the parables?” We will not increase in biblical wisdom and discernment unless we are in His Word, the Bible daily. In Mark 4, Jesus knew they (His disciples) didn’t understand the parable. Jesus told them point blank, that if they could not understand simple parables, how would they be able to understand more complicated ones? The sower was then explained by Jesus as one sowing “THE WORD”. The Word included both the Hebrew Scriptures and the teachings that Jesus gave them DIRECTLY over 3 years.

The sower was explained by Jesus as one sowing THE WORD. The emphasis is on the four kinds of soils, not the sower. Let’s wrap up by taking a look at them in an effort to understand ourselves, our own faith, and the faith of those around us.

FIRST: The words sown BESIDE THE ROAD fell in UNPREPARED individuals and Satan Snatched it away. This one is speaks to those who hear but brush the Word and Truth of God through Jesus Christ off with no real desire to know Him (VSS. 14-15).

SECOND: The word sown ON THE ROCKY PLACES represented individuals who received the word with joy, recognizing it as truth. But the reception was superficial and change did not follow. Seeds sown ON ROCKY PLACES represent people who receive the words with joy, recognizing it as truth. But the reception was superficial and change did not follow. The truth is that seeds germinate because there is life in the seed. But the pressure of persecution impact is similar to hot sun on rootless plants. We all know folks in this category (VSS 16-17).

A THIRD response occurred as seed is SOWN AMONG THE THORNS. There was a response, but thorns choked out the truth and no fruit developed. What did Jesus mean by THORNS? Thorns that arise include THE WORRIES OF THE WORLD, AND THE DECEITFULNESS OF RICHES, AND THE DESIRES FOR OTHER/MORE “THINGS” (vs.19)

FORTH AND FINALLY, some seed fell into PREPARED HEARTS, producing fruit; thirtyfold, sixtyfold, and a hundredfold. Although one cannot be dogmatic, if genuine conversation results in a changed life that produces fruit (cf. Matthew 7:16, 20; Luke 3:8).

Only this fourth response indicates genuine salvation. The first three responses produced no fruit, indications there was no permanent change. The purpose of this parable is not to elaborate on genuine conversion but to illuminate to his disciples, including you and I as to WHY individuals responded as they did to Jesus.

While the Merriam-Webster defines a cheat sheet as “a written or graphic aid (such as a sheet or notes) that can be referred to for help in understanding and remembering something complex”, Jesus simplified for us His complex wisdom for better understanding God’s truth in life and in relation to others. My two take-away for you today is simple. Read Mark 4 and the Parable of the Sower (Seeds) and refresh your mind and heart as to the four possible faith scenarios in those around you and perhaps, for some of you, your own faith. And then commit to use this great wisdom of Jesus in your life and life mission-hear forward. I have started to do this myself and it’s something we call all do. Blessings-Steven

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We live in difficult times in trying times full of suffering. The secret to pushing through and overcoming suffering is to persevere. In today's episode Steven is going to take us through the Word of God, focussing on the Apostle Paul's words regarding why, how and when to persevere through trials and times of suffering. Tune in and if you like-take notes. Thank you for tuning in and let's get started!

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"Is your soul weary? Jesus offers rest that is much deeper than physical rest- He gives you rest in mind, soul and spirit."
Matt 11:28

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*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
Romans 13:5–7 (NIV)
“_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing. Give to everyone what you owe them: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor._”

*BACKGROUND/CONTEXT*
Beginning in Romans 12, Paul shifted his message from explaining the theology of the gospel to describing how the gospel should transform our lives and how we should live as believers. 

In Romans 12, believers are called to become “living sacrifices,” marked by humility, love, peace, and overcoming evil with good. Then in Romans 13:1-4, which we studied yesterday, Paul applied these principles to the Christian’s relationship with governing authorities. He explained that government is part of God’s “ordering of society” and that believers should live respectfully and peacefully within the nations where God has placed them.

Today, Paul continues this teaching by moving from the general principle of submission to practical examples of Christian conduct within society. 

*SUBMISSION AND CONSCIENCE*
_Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience_

In yesterday’s study, Paul focused on our external submission to governing authorities. However, in today’s study, he moves to our inward motivation. As Christians, we are not only to obey authorities because we fear punishment, but because we understand that honoring lawful authority is part of living faithfully before God. In other words, submission is not simply about avoiding consequences; it is also about maintaining a clear conscience before the Lord.

The word “conscience” (_syneidēsis_) refers to our inner moral awareness, our God-given understanding of right and wrong. For believers, our conscience is shaped by the Holy Spirit and the truth of God’s Word. Paul’s point is that we as Christians should want to do what is right - not because we are forced to, but because our hearts have been transformed by Christ.

This same idea appears in 1 Peter 2:15, where Peter writes: “_For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people._” Christians should be known as people of integrity whose conduct reflects their faith even when no one is watching.

In a culture that often celebrates rebellion, outrage, and hostility toward authority, we are called to demonstrate humility, wisdom, self-control, and peaceful living. Our goal is not to win political arguments, but to live with a clear conscience and a faithful witness before both God and the world.

*PAYING TAXES AND SERVING SOCIETY*
_This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing_

Paul now moves from the principle of submission to a practical example: paying taxes. In the Roman world, taxes were unpopular and burdensome, just as they are for many people today. Yet Paul teaches that Christians should willingly pay those taxes they owe. This is because government, despite its faults, serves an important role in maintaining order within society.

Again, Paul describes governing authorities as “God’s servants.” This time he uses the Greek word (_leitourgos_), which is normally used for public service or even priestly ministry. Paul’s point is not that rulers are spiritually righteous, but that God can use civil authorities to accomplish His purposes, especially in maintaining order, protecting people, and carrying out justice.

Jesus Himself addressed this issue when questioned about paying taxes to Caesar, in Matthew 22:21, he replied to the Jewish leaders:  _“Give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s._” Jesus acknowledged the legitimate role of earthly government while also reminding us that our ultimate allegiance belongs to God alone. Governments may receive taxes, but our worship, identity, and devotion belong only to God.

For Christians, paying taxes and obeying laws are a part of living honorably before God. Believers should be known as people of integrity who contribute to society rather than constantly resisting or exploiting it. Remember, every earthly kingdom is only temporary compared to the eternal rule of Christ.

*GIVE WHAT IS OWED*
_If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor_

Paul concludes this section with four commands summarizing how Christians should live responsibly within our society. Believers are to “_give what is owed_” to those in authority. This includes not only financial obligations, but also the attitudes we show toward people.

*First: “_if you owe taxes, pay taxes._”* The word used here refers primarily to direct taxes such as land or personal taxes. Christians are not to avoid their civic responsibilities simply because they dislike the government or disagree with its policies.

*Second: “_if revenue, then revenue._”* This refers more to indirect taxes such as customs duties or tolls placed on goods and commerce. In essence, Paul is saying believers should conduct themselves honestly in all areas of public life and business.

*Third: “_if respect, then respect._”* The word “respect” carries the idea of reverence or proper regard for authority. Christians may strongly disagree with leaders or policies, but Scripture calls believers to avoid contempt, slander, and dishonor. “_Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor._” 1 Pet 2:17.

*Fourth: “_if honor, then honor.”_* Honor means recognizing the position and responsibility that authorities hold. This does not mean treating leaders as moral superior, or worthy of homage. Rather, Christians acknowledge that authority itself is part of God’s ordering of society.

In many ways, these commands summarize Christian citizenship. We are called to display a different spirit, one that reflects the character of Christ and points people toward His kingdom. 

*APPLICATION*
One of the greatest testimonies that we as Christians can give to the world is not what we say, but how we live. If we do not live the faith we proclaim, no one will listen to our words. Paul reminds believers that submission, honesty, respect, and integrity are all part of our witness to Christ. Christians should never be known for being dishonest, hateful, rebellious, or constantly outraged people. Instead, we should be known for our Christlike behavior and doing what is right even when it is difficult.

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WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

WHEN WE ARE WEEK-WE ARE REALLY AT OUR STRONGEST

By Steven Garofalo May 1, 2026

While each one of us enters the new week differently and at different stages of life, I’m reminded how temporal life is and how or present, difficult times are really when we are the strongest. Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 “So, to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” A thorn was given to Paul, and I believe perhaps to most if not all of us. With Paul, this seems to have been some recurrent physical affliction. Perhaps a migraine headache, malaria, or epilepsy as many have suggested. Only God knows.  

Most importantly, Paul saw this as the work of Satan, permitted by God for a good purpose (keeping him humble). It could not be relieved through prayer in Paul’s case (v.8). But Paul makes clear in v.9 that “the power of Christ in him was more important than freedom from pain”. Paul makes clear that having to boast and defend himself made him feel foolish. It seems that everyone could see the thorn Paul suffered from-it was no secret. Some among the Corinthian Christians probably thought less of Paul because of his torn in the flesh, but they had known nothing of the amazing spiritual experience that lay behind it. The thorn, Paul said was bad used for good, as the New King James says, “a messenger of Satan”. God allowed Satan’s messenger to successfully keep Paul from becoming exhaled above measure…in his own eyes and that of others. Boy, how this hits home with most of us. Our failures are really chisel marks in our clay and mental makeup so that the Lord can use us “authentically”. 

This goes strongly against “numbers” as our barometer of success in our modern world. How many were saved, how many downloads, how many views and likes. What a joke-this is harmful if taken as success. Success is made one on one through each believer to others. And when we get too big for our own self, God will send a thorn. Whether that thorn is temporary or permanent, that’s up to Him not us. Either way, it is for our own ultimate good in both the temporal and eternal spectrum. 

Reflecting in all of this makes me think about the state of the church, Christianity, the United States, and the world. My conclusion is that we are all out of wack to some degree…some more than others. And as such, God is recalibrating us. There is no going back to the way things used to be. My mom is 90 years old and has a difficult time with this …understandably. But the Great Generation of World War2 was changed forever by war, Great Depression. And it left a thorn in their side. But then came the 1950’s. Good times came back. But things were different forever. And the thorn in many if not most all families and homes re: the loss of a lost one and the emotional and mental scars of war quietly lived in…the loss of children, husbands, friends and the like was a thorn fie that generation. Hence why they were serious and very matter of fact.  

 Suffering is real. Through Paul’s infirmities God made him completely dependent, but his continued-even forced-dependence upon God made him s thronged Paul did not resign himself to his fate; he welcomed it. He rejoiced that he could say, “WHEN I AM WEAK, THEN I AM STRONG”. “I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, THEN I am strong-Apostle Paul. This is not a one-day way of thinking, acting and being-it is how we chose to live our life-dependent on God or independent of His will for our lives. Calamities come to all. It is how we view, accept, and embrace them. Which will you choose?

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FROM SADNESS TO PERSEVERANCE
Living A Life Of Hope!

Apostle Paul viewed perseverance as a vital, Holy Spirit-empowered endurance of suffering, fueled by hope, calling, and the promise of eternal glory. He taught that trials develop character and hope (Romans 5:3-4), encouraging believers to not grow weary in doing good and to finish their faith "race".

Key Themes of Paul’s Teaching on Perseverance:Suffering Produces Character: Paul writes in Romans 5:3-4 that suffering leads to endurance (perseverance), which builds character and ultimately produces hope. Empowered by Grace: True perseverance is not self-striving but reliance on God’s power, as Paul notes in 1 Corinthians 15:10 that he labored harder than others, yet it was "the grace of God" within him. The "Race" Metaphor: Paul frequently used athletic metaphors, stating he "fought the good fight" and "finished the race" (2 Timothy 4:7), encouraging believers to remain steadfast to the end. Focus on Eternity: In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18, he encourages believers to look beyond temporary struggles to an "eternal weight of glory".

Joy in Trials: Paul modeled finding joy in suffering (Romans 5:3) and maintaining a mindset that trials are merely temporary, as shown in his letter to the Philippians.Key Verses on Perseverance by Paul:Romans 12:12: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."Galatians 6:9: "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. "2 Thessalonians 3:5: "May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance."2 Timothy 4:7:  "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."Pillars of Paul's Own Perseverance:Paul’s endurance was built on a firm conviction of his calling, a reliance on divine strength rather than human ability, and a focus on the reward of Christ, often prioritizing these over his own physical safety.

So I ask you..how you see perseverance in today’s crazy world? Are you willing to take the Sceipturel challenge to suffer in order to build character before the Lord daises you up to even higher levels of service, joy and blessing according to how much you and I can handle without letting success, lower and wealth get the best of us? Think about that-pray about that…

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