In the 21st Century, overwhelmingly, most all people, including many Christians don’t want to be told much of anything in light of correction regarding their sin. This is often do to an “UNTEACHABLE SPIRIT”. Culture has conditioned the masses “not to judge”, taking Matthew 7:1-3 out of context. Sadly, this includes many Christians. Jesus said, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye”? Jesus is not saying “don’t judge” period, only to “not judge hypocritically”. We have covered that already in a previous podcast.
In Matthew chapter 15, verses 15-17 we find Jesus teaching His disciples as well as you and I today about the proper-biblical process of restoring an erring, unrepentant believer. Very seldom in the Bible do we find very specific, methodical steps for God’s commands, but here we do!
This is what Jesus told them: If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.” (Matthews 18:15)
Jesus went on to further clarify what and how exactly we are to respond to an unrepentant brother or sister in Christ if they fail to acknowledge that sin in verses 16 and 17.
“But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.”
To break Jesus breaks this down-providing you and I today as He did His disciples about the process of restoring an erring believer. This is the detailed process Jesus gave the church for handling an unrepentant sinner. Here they are in order:
FIRST, there should be a loving personal confrontation.
SECOND, as outlined in verse 16 is not as clear regarding the principle of witnesses which is taken from Deuteronomy 19:15, but what is it the witness attest? Evidently they witness that the offended brother is acting in good faith and in the right spirit in attempting to work our RECONCILIATION. They also would be witnesses to any agreement.
THIRD: If this does not bring peace, the offended brother is to report it to the assembly (church elders not the flock through gossip). The church then is to do everything possible to convince the believer who has sinned to be reconciled or to right HTE wrong FORTH: If the erring unrepentant one will not respond, that person is to be disciplined by being cut off from the fellowship of the church. Such a loss would be extremely painful to the offender in an effort to have them bend to God and not attempt to bend God’s ways to accommodate their sin ( 1 Corinthians. 5:11; 2 Thessalonians 3:6, 14, 15).
In the 21st Century, too many Christians don’t want to be told much if anything in light of correction regarding their sin. This can often been attributed to an “UNTEACHABLE SPIRIT”. Culture has conditioned the masses “not to judge”, taking Matthew 7:1-3 out of context. We as Christians are commanded to live in this world but not “as part of it”. Romans 12:2 makes clear, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect”. As you start your day, I would challenge you to ask yourself; better-yet, ask someone close to you one question: “Do I have a teachable spirit”? God is waiting to work with you as He is with me and all of us the issue. Make it a wonderful day:).